CONFIDENCE • COLLAR WORK • RECALL PLAYBOOK

Ivy’s Training Playbook

Gene and Holly, thank you both for today. Ivy is a sweet dog with a lot of potential. Today gave us a clear starting point: confidence building, hand shyness, collar desensitization, recall foundations, doorway manners, the Five-Minute Rule, and helping Ivy learn how to succeed on her own.

The goal is not perfection overnight. The goal is a dog who feels safer, responds more confidently, recovers better, and learns that calm, clear structure makes life easier.

Portal password: Super

Start Here
Confidence and trust first.
Top Priority
Find Ivy’s crack food.
Main Focus
Collar work + recall.
Mindset
Short wins build confidence.
MODULE 1

Read These in the Super Session E-Portal

This page gives direction. The E-Portal gives the full explanation. Read these sections before trying to do too much at once.

1. ABCs of Dog Communication

Dogs are visual, tonal, and spatial. This is foundation work for Ivy, especially with confidence and jumping.

2. Marker Word Training — YES

Learn what YES means, when to use it, why timing matters, and why “good girl” is encouragement, not the marker.

3. The Five-Minute Rule

Use this around arrivals, departures, visitors, excitement, and emotional resets.

4. Nothing in Life Is Free

Ivy should learn that calm behavior, attention, and simple structure help her access the things she wants.

5. Regular Recall

Practice everyday recall separately from emergency recall. Keep it fun, clear, and highly reinforced.

6. Emergency Recall

Read all emergency recall phases before taking this outside on a longer training line.

7. Jumping

If you do not want Ivy to jump, please read the jumping section and apply the visual, tonal, and spatial rules consistently.

8. Super Sessions “+” Menus

Open the expandable plus signs inside the portal. There is a lot of important coaching material hidden in those sections.

Password: Super
MODULE 2

Confidence & Collar Desensitization

One of the first things we noticed today was a little hand sensitivity and hesitation when reaching toward Ivy’s collar. This is common with confidence issues, and we will improve it gradually over the next several weeks.

What We Are Building

  • More confidence around hands.
  • More comfort with the collar going on and off.
  • Less hesitation when people reach near her neck.
  • A stronger positive association with training equipment.

The Collar Game

I demonstrated using a larger collar by placing my hand through the opening and encouraging Ivy to voluntarily place her head through the collar to earn a reward.

Important: no pressure, no chasing, no grabbing, and no forcing. Ivy should choose to move toward the collar.
How To Practice the Collar Game
  • Use Ivy’s highest-value food reward once you find it.
  • Start with a larger collar opening.
  • Let Ivy move her head toward the collar voluntarily.
  • Mark with YES and reward.
  • Keep sessions short and successful.
  • Practice over 2–4 weeks instead of rushing.
Collars, Slip Leads, and Martingales

A large slip lead can also work well for this exercise because it creates a generous opening.

For everyday training and recall work, I like a martingale collar because the small control loop makes it easier to safely guide or catch a dog during recall exercises than a standard flat collar.

Bottom line: the collar should begin to predict good things, not pressure.
MODULE 3

Find Ivy’s “Crack Food”

Recall training is only as strong as the paycheck behind it. For Ivy, we need to find the reward that makes her stop, turn, and think, “Okay, those humans are suddenly very interesting.”

Try These First

  • Grass-fed beef hot dogs
  • Rotisserie chicken
  • Turkey pepperoni
  • Sharp cheddar cheese
  • Freeze-dried beef liver
  • Small pieces of cooked steak

Emergency Recall Rule

Pick one special food that is used only for emergency recall. Do not use that same reward for regular recall, doorway work, casual snacks, or everyday obedience.

Translation: emergency recall needs the biggest paycheck in Ivy’s training life.

What You Are Looking For

  • Fast head turn
  • Excited response
  • Better focus
  • More enthusiasm
  • “Whoa, I want THAT” energy
Do this first: test several foods and pick the one that clearly wins. That becomes Ivy’s emergency-recall-only jackpot.
MODULE 4

Building Confidence Through Emergency Recall

One of the best confidence-building exercises we will be working on is Ivy’s Emergency Recall. We will build this skill in phases rather than rushing the process.

Phase One: Value First

  • Find Ivy’s crack food.
  • Keep the reward special.
  • Practice in easy environments first.
  • Keep sessions short and exciting.
  • Do not poison the cue by using it casually all day.

Phase Two: Add Distance Later

  • Start indoors or in a very easy location.
  • Then move to a 20-foot lead.
  • Progress to 40 feet.
  • Eventually build to 60 feet.
  • Only increase difficulty when Ivy is successful.
Using the Ball as Part of the Game

We will also continue evaluating how motivating the ball is for Ivy. If the ball becomes one of her favorite rewards, we can incorporate it into recall games as training progresses.

We will know more once we get Ivy on a 20, 40, and eventually 60-foot training lead and see what actually motivates her outside.

Why This Builds Confidence

Emergency recall is not just obedience. It teaches Ivy to turn, move toward you, and succeed under pressure. Every successful repetition helps her believe she can make good choices.

MODULE 5

Working With and Without Sybil

Today we noticed that Ivy showed a little more confidence when Sybil was nearby, which is perfectly normal. I brought Sybil back into the session because it helped Ivy feel more comfortable and successful in the moment.

When Sybil Helps

Sybil can help Ivy feel safer and more willing to participate. That support was useful today because it helped Ivy relax and gain some confidence during the session.

Why Ivy Also Needs Solo Practice

Long term, Ivy also needs to practice without Sybil. We do not want Ivy relying on another dog as her only source of confidence.

Big picture: Sybil can help Ivy feel safer, but Ivy still needs to become confident as Ivy. This matters especially outside, where distractions are stronger and good recall matters most.
MODULE 6

Arrivals, Departures & Doorway Drills

Continue practicing the Five-Minute Rule every time you leave and return home. This also applies when friends or family members visit.

When You Come Home

  • Stay calm.
  • Do not create a big emotional greeting.
  • Let Ivy settle first.
  • Reward calm behavior.
  • Attention comes after calmness.

When Guests Arrive

  • Use the same Five-Minute Rule.
  • Do not let guests feed the excitement.
  • Wait for Ivy to settle before greeting.
  • Calm behavior earns interaction.
  • Excitement does not.
Doorway drills matter: this is not just obedience. This is helping Ivy’s nervous system learn how to settle.
MODULE 7

If Ivy Jumps

If you do not want Ivy to jump, please review the jumping section inside the training portal. Jumping is usually not solved by talking more. It is solved by clear body language, timing, and consistency.

Visual

Dogs read what they see. Your body position, hands, eyes, and movement all matter.

Tonal

Your voice can calm Ivy down or light her up. Be careful not to reward excitement with excited sound.

Spatial

How you move, step, turn, block, or invite space matters more than most people realize.

Remember: dogs are visual, tonal, and spatial. Read those areas in the portal and apply them consistently.
MODULE 8

How Long to Train

Several short training sessions each day are much more effective than one long exhausting session. Especially with confidence issues, we want Ivy finishing sessions feeling successful.

Do This

  • Keep sessions short.
  • End while Ivy is still successful.
  • Make the work feel like a game.
  • Use high-value rewards.
  • Stop before she checks out.

Avoid This

  • Long drilling sessions.
  • Repeating cues over and over.
  • Grabbing or forcing the collar work.
  • Practicing when frustrated.
  • Moving too quickly into distractions.
Confidence grows from repeated wins. We want Ivy thinking, “That was fun. I can do this.”
MODULE 9

Ivy’s Homework This Week

Keep this simple, clear, and consistent. Read first, then practice.

1. Portal Review

  • ABCs of Dog Communication
  • Marker Word YES
  • The Five-Minute Rule
  • Nothing in Life Is Free

2. Collar Game

  • Use crack food.
  • Use a large opening.
  • No pressure or forcing.
  • Build over 2–4 weeks.

3. Recall

  • Read recall.
  • Read emergency recall.
  • Find the jackpot reward.
  • Build in phases.

4. Doorway Manners

  • Use the Five-Minute Rule.
  • Practice arrivals.
  • Practice departures.
  • Use the same rules for guests.
Portal Sections to Review Next
  • Nothing in Life Is Free
  • The Five-Minute Rule
  • Marker Word Training
  • ABCs of Dog Communication
  • Recall
  • Emergency Recall
  • Jumping
  • Doorway Manners
MODULE 10

Printable Quick Tracker

Track the things that matter: collar comfort, crack food, regular recall, emergency recall, solo confidence, and doorway manners.

Date Crack Food Tested Collar Game Regular Recall Emergency Recall Solo Ivy Practice Notes
____/____/________________☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No____________
____/____/________________☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No____________
____/____/________________☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No____________
____/____/________________☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No☐ Yes ☐ No____________
Progress looks like: less hesitation around the collar, faster recall response, better focus, calmer doorway behavior, and Ivy becoming more confident with and without Sybil.
BIG PICTURE

This Is Confidence Foundation Training

Ivy does not need perfection. She needs clarity, patience, structure, and confidence-building repetitions. The more consistent you are with the foundations, the more secure Ivy will become.

Read first. Practice second. Keep sessions short. Keep rewards valuable. Build recall in phases. Practice with Sybil when Ivy needs support, but also give Ivy plenty of one-on-one confidence-building time.

Bottom line: confidence is not built by rushing. Confidence is built by stacking small wins over time.
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